Monday, April 20, 2015

Family Update

It's been a week since I have blogged! I would love to say the silence has been due to preparation for the great big Messy Mom blog party happening on May 10th, but I haven't even had a chance to work on any of that because life has been really intense lately.

Here is some of what has been happening. 

My photography business took a back seat for all of January and February. Things tend to slow down for on location photographers when it's freezing cold outside. Now that the flowers are blooming and prom/graduations and weddings are happening I am back in business.

I have some more "springy" photo sessions, but they aren't edited or watermarked yet. These are some from the past month though.



Two weeks ago my father in law had triple coronary bypass surgery. They moved him from the hospital to a rehabilitation center. It was a scary surgery that was a little concerning through some parts, but thank God that he is doing well. Now he needs prayer to be healed enough to be able to go home. Thanks for all of the prayers that have already gone out. I know the whole family appreciates it.

J's is almost finished with all of his technical classes and then he will start interviewing. His biggest project as a computer programing major has been to make a program that enables robots to play Tic-Tac-Toe. He finally finished that assignment and I know that's a relief for him. He also still leads worship for a church in Indiana. I don't get to go with him as often as I would like because it's a big drive to make with the whole family and if there isn't a photo shoot I need to be be at, there is a birthday party the kids are invited to. Or sometimes someone is sick, as was the case this past Sunday.

In other news, the lease is almost up on our apartment and it's been kind of a nightmare. We'd love to move, but J still has one more semester left of school and won't have a FULL time job until the fall. So that really limits what we can afford or even qualify for. However, if we get a 6 month lease then that means we'll move in the middle of the school year and I would hate to put Z through that kind of transition if it entails switching schools. We've looked at some places, but they don't stay on the market for long. So it's kind of pointless to even search until June when we are ready to move. I don't know how people do it! The timing and availability all has to perfect.

I am trying to focus on Psalms 3:5 



and Romans 8:28 




Z has one month left of school, but SJ goes a little longer and then starts summer school. Don't worry, it's not all summer and it's not all day either. Every kid deserves a break, no matter how much catching up they have to do. I just finished a conference meeting where I found out that she is going to the Kindergarten summer school!  So that means that she kind of starts Kindergarten in 7 weeks. I am going to be tuning into a Kindergarten readiness webinar next week. I really can't believe she's starting Kindergarten! One reason is because it's been such a long journey of just learning to listen and speak that I really didn't think she would be ready. On top of that I just can't believe I have two school age children. 




It feels like just yesterday they were both toddlers and school wasn't even on my radar. Back then those moms and kids that had school schedules and extra curricular activities were in another world entirely. Now I am in that category! When did that happen!? I know I'll turn around and be watching them graduate High School and I'll probably have the same thoughts. Time really does fly. It's so cliche, but it's true. It keeps going faster and faster. 

I don't want to leave out Ezie. He is two and half and on the go!


It's hard to see in this photo, but his pajamas have turtle cape and whenever he puts on a cape he instantly transforms into a super hero and blast through the room with his fist straight out in front of him. He has done this since he was just a year old and it is hilarious.

At home he's a really easy toddler to deal with. He doesn't get into too much. He's not needy or whiney.  However, if he is not confined he has me questioning if I am even qualified to be his mother. I literally can't keep up with him. The worst was at Chic-fil-A when he darted out of the play land and ran towards the exit. I ran after him and the rug in front of the door slid out from under me and I fell on my side with full force. I had a huge bruise up and down my leg from that one. He just runs off all the time. I've tried using a harness and he hates it so much that we just become immobile. Hopefully he'll be out of this stage soon because sometimes his antics make me fear for both of our lives! 

That's not even all the latest, but it's certainly enough for now. I hope everyone else is enjoying the spring so far. I should be back to writing more soon.

7 comments:

{amy} said...

You haven't blogged in a week?! Uh oh...I'm rubbing off on you! ;) I'll continue to pray for J's dad's recovery as well as your peace and trust as you await God's plan & timing for your living situation. I can definitely agree that time really does fly! I'll have two high schoolers soon!! Though the preschool days now feel more like last week than yesterday...definitely not over a decade!! I can't allow myself to think about it much because my emotions can't handle it! As much as I love the grownups my kids are becoming, I seriously long for the days when they were Ezie's age so I could keep them with me longer (and maybe do a few things differently).

Jessica @ Barefoot by the Sea said...

I thought you must have been busy with life happenings! You know we will always be here when you come back :) Sounds like things have indeed been busier than usual. Prayers for your father in law - my Dad had quintuple bypass 10 years ago and it was so scary! He is fine and leads a healthy, happy life now! I hope that you figure out your living situation soon - you will, it's hard to realize that when you're "in the trenches" but God will provide. Finally, I completely relate to the motherhood oh my goodness they are growing moments. I have them daily - it's bittersweet! xo Remember, you're doing amazing Mama!

Susan said...

When I had children your age? I'm not sure I would have ever found time to write blog posts! Your life is full to the brim and that is a very good thing. xo

Jen Price said...

Ooh, sorry about the fall and getting bruised up. I'm sure it wasn't funny at the moment but reading about it sounds comical! It is true about kids. They grow up way too fast. I've found that I'm so busy now running them around to all their school activities and hanging out with friends. It's a fun stage that I'm trying desperately to treasure.

Wendy said...

You have this wonderful style about your writing, my Messy friend. You write you family happenings and yet manage to take us deep in your learnings too. Thank you. Always a pleasure.

Martha said...

You do have a busy life! and those beautiful children oh they are so worth the business. hope you find time to just be with them. Bless you.

Unknown said...

These are two of my most treasured and beloved scriptures! You have had a full plate and I enjoyed catching up with you! Thanks for taking time to update us.