Every summer you counsel at teen camp for your vacation.- Nope.
You have shaken as many hands as a politician.- Maybe if I went to a bigger church.
People think your husband works only three hours a week.- I hope not!
You can teach Sunday School and nurse your baby at the same time.- We don't have Sunday School at our church.
You can sincerely pray for someone’s dog!- I've prayed for a chicken, I am sure I could pray for dog.
You spend more time visiting in hospitals than doctors do.- No.
People consider you a walking phone book for church members.- That's what the internet is for.
You sing in the choir, teach Sunday School, and host a missionary family all in the same day.- No, No, and No*
You’re expected to be a piano player, a “spiritual gift!”- I wish.
I don't think of myself as a pastor's wife because I really don't fit the traditional role. And for those that don't know me, my husband is on staff at our church and has been for about 5 years as the associate pastor and is also the worship leader. So I may not claim to be a "PW", but my husband is technically a pastor and I am
However, I do want to clarify that traditional can be a subjective word and compared to some pastor's families we may be super traditional and that's great. I am not trying to be non-churchy I am just trying to be myself and let other ladies be themselves. If you are a pastor's wife that fits in the list above, maybe wears nice department store dresses, and does Beth Moore Bible studies I think that's great, it's just not necessarily me. Traditional, progressive, conservative or not, being in ministry does have a major impact on a person's life.That's why, as boring as it may be, I wanted to take a little time this week to share some behind the scene details of life as a pastor's wife.* We may not have a choir, or sunday school, but for the record we do support and love many wonderful missionaries. None of them have stayed at our house though.
2 comments:
When I was a PW (if Youth Pastors count!), I'd have to answer "no" to most of these, too. I guess that makes sense, seeing as we were at the same church as you! ;) I will say, though, I did get asked for phone numbers a lot ~ but everyone still had dial-up internet back then!
you may not fit the criteria on this list, but you definitely fill the role! i've seen you make many sacrifices these past 5 years very graciously because you know your husband's "job" is so important. :) you're a great PW!
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